Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do I break up with him when we work together?

I have been dating a man for 3 years who works at the same company as me. He is a nice guy and our relationship is ok, but I know now that he is just not the right one for me. How do I break this off while we still work at the same company? It's not like we work side by side at the same desk, but it is a small place, everyone knows that we're a couple etc.. Will I have to find another job in order to do this comfortably?How do I break up with him when we work together?
Find another job and then break up with him. You should never date anyone where you work at.How do I break up with him when we work together?
You can break it off gently %26amp; inform other staff members your no longer in a relationship with him %26amp; still continue your employment. There's no need to look for another job, because your not going out with the company or tied to it in any way!





If your determined to end the relationship then tell him you want out, And if he's a gentleman then he will understand %26amp; let you go your own way in life!





I don't understand how people of both sexes can become a unit while working in the same company, as they are for ever in each others faces %26amp; don't have a life to themselves, enabling them to get out %26amp; meet others!





If you want to end it, then end it!





Cheers!
It'll be awkward, but wasn't the jobsite a little awkward when you first started working there? It's all part of being an adult.





Tell him respectfully that he's a nice guy and all, but that he's just not the one. Be firm but kind. The nosy asses at your job will say whatever they say, but who cares.





The fact is this - as adults, we're faced with situations sometimes where in order to do whats necessary, we have to face an awkward situation. So what - do it and get it over with before allowing yourself a chance to talk you out of it.





Keep working there - as bad as the economy is, I wouldn't recommend anybody quitting.
You should never have to quit a job because you broke up with a co-worker. I don't see why you'd want to leave your job if you like it and if it's secure.





When you decide to break up, i'm sure you can ask your ex if he will be kind enough to try and be amicable if the two of you happen to run into each other in the work place. If he's a good person, then i'm sure he will behave in an appropriate manner after the break-up. Just talk about it.





Sorry you're having this issue.. i hope it works out for you
You already said it - ';he is a nice guy';. Talk to him and find the best way suitable for both of you. Ending a relationship does not necessarily mean ending all contact - you can continue being friends. It might be easier that way and you will get time to reconsider everything. No need to quit working at the same place. Allow things to settle down till then take everything easy. Best of luck.
You know him best have the talk with him and see if the work place becomes to much then find another job.


It might be to much for him seeing you at work he might quit first.


But it's something you both should talk about how is this going to effect our work life








Please never get your meat and bread at the same place again...
If he is ok with the relationship ending on a platonic note, I don't see the problem. But are you (or he) going to be ok when the other starts seeing some else? Just a suggestion, don't date within the same building again.
Do it little by little spending less and less time together. Then explain to him that you have drifted apart.
If its not your career, its best you find another job!!!
Just tell him. Don't drag it out.
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