How do i break up with him?

Today is our one month aniversary (lol) and its really near christmas so he has something planned for us today and he bought a present and everything, but i''ve been meaning to break up with him, but how can i do it if he put in so much effort in buying something for me and taking me out, etc...? it would be awful to break up with him at this time since its near christmas and everything.....so i honestly do't know what to do?How do i break up with him?
How duplicitous! You do plumb the very depths rather than the heights of morality, don't you? You've waited too long to cancel politely so you must meet as planned, return the gift graciously saying, 'You were not to know - I'm sorry,' and then you leave quietly with dignity. If he gives chase, pressing the gift on you after you've made your brief farewell, accept it with quiet thanks and get outta Dodge. And don't come back. If, however, the gift is jewellery, you must return it or the world will conclude you are a prostitute. Thems is the rules, I'm afraid.How do i break up with him?
Well you're a lot nicer than my sister. She just broke up with her boyfriend/almost fiancee over the phone after over a year together, and almost being engaged.





In your case it's only been a month. Carve out a small bit of time for him, thank him for the gift and just be 'friendly'. Shortly after Christmas, let him know that you don't see it going anywhere.
you would seem like a little ***** if you did it after he did all that for you.


do it before he does it.
That does seem like an awkward spot to be in. I think you need to be honest and to the point, but at the same time use tact. If you really like him as a person tell him so--and say it certainly isn't you


but me...I am young, and I'm just not ready for anything this involved or serious. I got carried away cause you are such a nice guy.





If he is not such a nice guy, but is trying to manipulate you by buying you gifts, and so on tell him it is awfully sweet of him to go to all that effort, and you appreciate the thought, but you are looking for someone with similar values as yourself, and you have gotten to know him long enough to see that you do not share the same values, and goals...(etc.) Keep it simple. DO it in a place he is comfortable, and you are too! Not far from home--or do it at your home, if he has been there already so you have your family's support if you need it.





Dating is a lot more serious than people recognize. It is often best to get to know someone for a while as friends, in a group before you actually date--then you can see how they act with others, and when they are not necessarily trying to impress you. Then you know if you like them for them. Rather than find out later half of what they do is a pretence, to impress you. You might like to read a book called Questions Young People Ask @ (Or ask them to send you a free copy) www.watchtower.org