Friday, August 20, 2010

My boyfriend threatened to kill himself when I tried to break up with him?

How should I deal with this? He seems pretty messed up and I'm actually afraid he might try something...My boyfriend threatened to kill himself when I tried to break up with him?
Standard ploy for unbalanced people. It is his one desperate way to keep you around a little longer. By doing this, he is proven that he is a person you don't need to be around. Tell him to go away and leave you alone. Call his parents and let them know that their son needs mental health counseling immediately.





Get away from him and stay away.My boyfriend threatened to kill himself when I tried to break up with him?
Depending on the guy he just might... even some of us completely stable guys consider and even attempt things that we would have never considered when someone we love leaves us...





I know i got out of a 4 year relationship and started cutting for a while, but in a fairly short time i got over it.





The best thing to do is to sit down and talk about it with him, tell him that yes you still want to go separate ways, but that you still care about him as a friend and such.





Also, whatever you do, dont ignore/shun him for the next while, hes going to need to talk with you now and then for a while ... maintain that you want to stay split, but be a friend...





AN ACTUAL FRIEND, i know to many girls that think 'friend' means your still on their facebook and nothing more.
Give him some more time...another week. You have to talk to him and get him to agree that it will be a mutual break-up. Talk to him and let him know it wont work out for whatever reasons you have and get him to agree. If he's threatening to kill himself you already have him wrapped around your finger, you can get him to agree with whatever. Maybe give him alittle nookie before you leave...He'll be ok after that.....then borrow 20 bucks from him.
So tell his parents or close friends, then end it. You aren't responsible for how he chooses to react, and more often than not such a threat is just a ploy to keep you...manipulation. Let his folks know though, so they can keep an eye on him. Even someone who only threats suicide needs help. Don't let his threats keep you from moving on...
You shouldn't stay with him, but you'll have to let his parents know what he said %26amp; that you can't be around him anymore. Don't let yourself get sucked into his craziness.
Dont stay with him - tell his parents. If he's lying just to get you to stay with him, his parents will deal with it.
well you definitely can't stay in a relationship like this. You have to let him go and make sure his friends now that he's suicidal
dump him just stick to ur plan and just never get alone with him

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