How should i put it if i break up with him?

ok, he isn't good to me. He's constantly flirting with my friend's and freaks out about when i hang with other guys. He's a sweetie but he just isn't a good boyfriend. He's also like my best friend and i don't want to break his heart. He's told me he wants to be with me forever and stuff. i'm in a position where i'll hafta see him at least 2-3 times a week so it will be awkward. I don't want to be mean about it, how should i put it?How should i put it if i break up with him?
Just tell him and be honest. Like look, I love you and Im glad your in my life but I think our relationship is better in a friend state not a relationship state. How should i put it if i break up with him?
Tell him the truth! Maybe he doesn't realize that his flirting is actually noticed by you. I think I would talk to him more about this before you go breaking up with him. Just sit down with him and say I feel like you flirt with other girls because...and give examples. See if you two can work it out!





As for the whole upset when you hang out with other guys...make sure that he has met these guys, and is invited to come along. Doing this will make him feel much more confident in you hanging out with other people.
There is no good way to break up with someone. All you can do is be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Just tell him that it is not working out for you, that you do not feel that this is a healthy relationship for you. To be honest you really do not have to say much, just tell him that you do not want to be in this relationship anymore. Breaking up always causes hurt feelings so no matter what you say, he will still be hurt.
I'm really not sure. I had a boyfriend that was exactly like that though, and he broke up with me after a while just cause he didn't like me anymore. Tell him that you aren't trying to break his heart, and that you always want to be friends, but let him know what he is doing that bugs you so much. Bring that up first, and it might open his eyes a little bit.


~LILJ
Well...is he really flirting? Maybe he is just trying to make you jealous like to see how you react or he needs more attention or something... and well have you talked to him about it? Try telling him, but it looks like you don't really love him... but ok just try to talk to him and fix it... it's not like he can not change...
You know what.. if he flirts with your friends, he is not the right now.. down the road he will start sleeping with them, and then you are going to ruin your friendship with the girls.. and it will be a messy situation.. tell him you want to move on..and its best if you both go your separate ways..and that you would love to be friends with him.. he will understand!
You know there is no way to do it with out it being awkward. I would just tell him you want your space and then see if he gives it to you. if he does then you can think it through if he doesn't then he couldn't care less what you want and you have to make a choice.
well he don't trust you when you hang out whit guys but when he starts flirting whit your friend's everything is fine he have some issues and that he likes your best friend and at the same time wants to be whit you forever there is something wrong whit thins picture forget it him and find a better person
well just tell him what u told us. im sure it will be hard on him maybe even you but u need to let the truth out. or its just going to bother you. dont drag it out and make a fool out of him and waste your time. im sure he will understand and if not he will get over it there are other girls . and for you other guys and im sure u know that. hope all goes well
Just be honest. Tell him it isn't working. Use the line ';It's no you...it's me';. Let him know you still want to be friends. It's going to be awkward for a while, but once he moves on things will be better. And maybe you can really stay friends!





Good luck!
Dump him if hes flirtin with your freinds then tell him to **** off trust me 1 day 1 thing will lead 2 another and hell end up breaking your heart dump him b4 it gets to that stage





Hope this helps





i deserve 10 points dnt i lool this is top quality help man lol
sorry to tell u but every break up is mean even if u dont want it to be or dont mean it but just tell him ur sweet but i think u like my best friend and i ready to be single again and not have to listen to u after i hang out with my guy friends
Well if you do like him alot explain the problem to him...


If your adiment you want to break up just explain whats wrong and say that you do like him but you dont see it working out and you just wanna be mates for now. good luck.
Be honest with him, that is what you would want someone to be with you. Especially since you still have to see him again a few times a week.
Tell him you think this might not be working and you want to take a break. See how he reacts... if you want to completely end it then just tell him its not working, he might argue with you but you need to stand your ground.
just be straight with him.





tell him that you and him are great friends, and want to stay that way. But you dont think that we can remain dating.





And be like we will be friends forever, best friends
If he flirts with your friends, why be with him? Also, does your friend flirt back? Tell him face-to-face that you don't think it's working out and if he asks what he did wrong, he's a jerk.
just call him and tell him like its not working out


and you can just be friends


just tell you just want your friend back
talk to him tell him how you feel about him flirting and stuff if he rellle loves you he will try his best to be a better boyfriend
i reccommand you not to lie about anything, my girl thit that and i went just crazy when i found out she lied..


just be nice if you tell him...


and never hasten it!
I would be truthful with him. Don't make excuses, just tell him what you're feeling.
you said he is your best fried so be honest with him let him know how you feel
say: ';let's take a break and see what happens.';
this anit working out let be friends
Sorry I dn't think this is working out I think it time for us to move on let break up =]
let him know you have grown up and it's time for you to move on
be like your an as-h-o-le so we gatta brake up