How do I get over him and why did he break up with me?

My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. He had no real reason except that we'd have to move on at some point anyways. This is so out of character for him. He seems like hes a totally different person. Not even a week earlier he had promised me he was going to try his hardest to make things perfect between us again, and he did for awhile. and after he dumped me i tried so hard to get him back, i said i would do anything, and listed everything i was willing to do. He won't even talk to me about it. It's like he went from being the perfect man to an arrogant asshole. He 'fell out of love' with me in 4 days. How do i get him back? or at least get over him. it's the worst feeling in the world loving someone with all your heart and them not even caring.How do I get over him and why did he break up with me?
Part of getting over him is not caring why he broke up with you. If he doesn't want to be with you anymore, his loss. Don't try running back to him, don't call him, act like you don't need him. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and he's just another bad one. Don't fall in love with someone who doesn't love you back! Find another guy, just know life goes on!How do I get over him and why did he break up with me?
I agree that it is the worst feeling ever.


If you want to get over him, it wont be so easy since you loved him a whole lot.


First of all it could be that he changed but i personally think that with that short amount of time he maybe-just maybe-has some difficulty.


I also think that maybe he really isnt over you yet since he doesnt want to talk about it. Give him some time and wait until the both of you can open up and talk about the situation together.



first, get the crying off your system. it's ok to cry it lets the feelings out.





second, when you're done and through with hurting and crying go out and have fun. do that whether you're alone or with your friends just have fun. get a makeover or go shopping.





last, if you see your ex, make sure he sees that you're ok and you've gotten way over him. smile, wave then walk away. leave him dumbfounded and sorry that he left you
i've been there before. this is 4 years later .. and i'm still not completely over him. as a matter of fact, i just saw him sunday for the first time in a couple of months and it wasn't easy, you just have to keep moving on. basically, accept the situation for what it is and you will be a peace with it.


he left me after i got back from a week vacation with my parents. a couple months later he was with my distant cousin. they broke up just recently ... and now im waiting for him to come crawling back to me ! lol i refuse to take him back, but i do manage to be civil.
if he broke up with you for no reason at all..its no point into trying to get him back. hes a loser.


he'll see it in the long run of what he lost and how good he had it.


if your trying to get back with him your just giving him more power to hurt you.theres no special way to get over someone and it wont be easy,but you can start by stop begging for love back


stop calling him, let him has his space.


try to pull your self together before you get hurt again.


just LET GO...
I think you should move on, cause then if your are together again then he will not be happy which, will make you not happy. I think by the symptoms that you are telling me is that maybe he was cheating on you or maybe he found a ';better'; girl for him.... its better for you to move on, cause then you can meet better and new people. A way to forget all about him is to got to the mall whit friends and look for a new bf. This all got for you. Now is time for you to decide....good luck!!!