How to break up with someone easily and not hurt him?

I know I have to break up with the guy I've been seeing, I'm just having a very hard time finding the words. I am new to this dating thing after having been married for many years. I don't want to hurt the guy but I know I can't keep seeing him. You can read my other questions for details. But I need advice on how to let him down easy, thanks.How to break up with someone easily and not hurt him?
If he has feelings for you and is falling in love, there isn't a way to break up with him without hurting him. So, the goal here isn't to spare him his feelings. The goal here is to be direct and to the point and then commit yourself to breaking it off. That may mean ignoring his phone calls and ignoring him. He may be the kind of guy that can just move on and you can still be friends. It's unlikely but possible. If it isn't possible, the best thing you can do for him is to make a clean break, let time heal his wounds and do your best to stay committed to making him move on.How to break up with someone easily and not hurt him?
There is no 'easy' let down.





Just be as direct as possible, leave no doubt that its over. It is very tempting to wuss out and make it seem like there's still a chance, but that's far more cruel since it leave them dangling. Let them move on - let them know its over.
Unless there are no feeling involve you can forget about not hurting him. However, you need to do what makes you happy and you can't worry how he is going to handle it, he is an adult and he will be fine. Just be nice about it.
Just be completely honest with him. Don't be mean, but let him know that the relationship is over. He might be hurt at first, but he will respect you in the long run for being honest with him.
isn't that like asking 'how do i kick a guy right squarely at the balls without him hurting?'





if the balls have to be kicked, kick them hard.





he'll live.
i dont kno slap him im single lil lady