How can i break up with him?

how can i break up with my boyfriend without hurting him that much. i am not happy with him anymore and what makes it worse is that i can tell that he is trying really hard to keep the relationship going but i dont think i can do it anymore, he is a good guy and he doesnt deserve for me to hurt him, i broke up with my last bf but he had done a lot of things wrong so it was easier, what can i tell my bf now though?How can i break up with him?
i hate it when girls try to ';let you go easy'; by being ';nice';. it actually is a hell of a lot worse then just flat out breaking up. when you try to be nice about the break up and not hurt the person, you hurt them more because you give them hope by appearing that you still love them but don't believe they can change. thats not the case for you, because u know he is trying but if you try to be nice it will just appear as if u dont see that and it will hurt him a lot when he tries to pursue you and all you do is reject him. its going to hurt him not matter what, you just need to do your best to explain why you are unhappy and why you think this wont work. u also have to listen to what he has to say, because if you run away from him and never hear what he is going to say he will have a hard time getting over you when he never had a chance to explain himself. so be open with him and tell him why u dont want to be with him anymore, and let him cry and tell you everything he wants to tell you. thats all you really can do. if you ignore him after being nice, you're just making it worse.How can i break up with him?
Just be honest and don't sugarcoat it. Its gonna be harder on him, but at least he's getting the truth and in the end that's what he wants. Just tell him that ';that spark'; that was once there isn't anymore....that its not his fault..
You may want to do some self-examination before you do anything rash- like breaking up with a good guy! Just imagine how you'll feel if someone comes along and scoops him up after you dump him! The good guys are so hard to find - you'd better hang on to yours!
just tell him the chemistry is dying and you need some air to breathe. but also tell him you still care for him and tell him to be just friends. he'll understand.
Tell him you're not happy in the relationship. Don't string him along, that's worse than breaking up. He'll be fine as long as you're honest and respectful.
just break up with him





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well be truthful to him and if he loves you he will understand trust me things may not seem right at first but things will get better
Have sex with him first. Then break up with him.
Sit him down and be kind %26amp; honest.. If he is a good guy, he deserves to know the truth.

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