How do I break up with my boyfriend that won't hurt him?

We have been dating for 7 months and he really loves me and I don't know how to tell him without hurting him cause he is really sensitive and I don't want him to get really emotional over something that wasnt working out, I gave him signs that I don't care about our relationship but he doesnt seem to understand or see whats goin on (another reason) lol pls help!! thx!How do I break up with my boyfriend that won't hurt him?
I'm sorry...it's not possible. You can only be as compassionate and kind as you can....How do I break up with my boyfriend that won't hurt him?
You can't break up with him in a way that wont hurt him, but you can ensure that he doesn't keep getting hurt by cutting your ties with him. A lot of people make the mistake of trying to keep their ex around as a friend for a while, but all that does is ends up sending the ex mixed signals and keeps giving them hope that ends up being crushed. Once you break up with him, don't keep hanging out with him, or calling him. That will just draw the pain out.
the others are right. there is no way that you can tell him its over without him getting emotional and upset. its one thing that hes the emotional type, that already makes it hard to tell him. and with you being together for such a long time, i think that its safe to say he'll be devastated. you can only let him down as lightly as possible. be ind, ans show that you do care for him, just not in a dating way.
There's no way to break up with someone that won't hurt them... but you'll hurt them far LESS by being firm and direct about it. Women too often try to minimize the hurt by dancing around in circles, or leaving the door open for getting back together in the future, etc. A clean cut heals the fastest.
You can't reaally. How he takes it is up to him, not you, and you are not responsible.


That said, there's no reason to be brutal.


But you need to tell him straight out, and soon. probably you could say just what you said in your question.
im sorry but no matter what you do its going to hurt. it always will. the best you can do is say you really like him but you just dont think its working and you still want to be friends.
there is no easy way to break up with somebody


just make sure you are doing the right thing


you dont want to end up realising you did the wrong thing and wanting him back and finding out hes moved on