How should i break up with him and make it clear that its over without being mean?

I have been dating this guy for 2 months and i don't have feelings for him .He is just not for me.





However,i want to tell him straight up that i don't have feelings for him,we are not right for each other and i want him stop calling me and move on with his life.I am also going to tell that i don't feel the same way.





so do you think if i tell him this ,he will be crushed?


Is there any nicer way to tell him?How should i break up with him and make it clear that its over without being mean?
It'd be kinder to break up with him I reckon, else you're just going to get moody and unhappy and that'll make him unhappy too, so go for the quickest option.





I would tell him pretty much what you wrote. Say it gently but firmly, and I would do it in a one-to-one situation, so he doesn't have to deal with anyone looking at him. If it's not working it isn't working, and it's no reflection on him, it's just a bad fit for you. You can't help it and neither can he.How should i break up with him and make it clear that its over without being mean?
He will probably be crushed if he has real feelings for you, but if you are honest and straight forward with him he will be able to move on quickly sinc eyou are giving him closure and making it clear that there is no chance of getting back together on the future.





He may get hurt but it is the best way, if you are to nice to him you leave a window of oportunity for him to beleive he has a chance in the future.
Tell him that you don't have feelings for him anymore. Let him know that you want to move on with things and you want him to move on too. Tell him that he deserves someone better (even if he doesn't) and that he can't find that person if he is stuck with you. If you want to be friends with him, try saying ';Maybe someday we can be friends again'; (don't say ';Can we still be friends?'; It's too cliche and sounds almost mocking). If you don't want to be friends and he says something like that, just answer ';Let's see how things work out.'; And if he doesn't get it and calls you, just say ';I don't want to do this right now.'; Good luck.
Be cruel to be kind. Tell him straight and do not sugarcoat things. It's better for him to be hurt one big time (so he can immediately accept that its over) that for you to ';kill him softly'; by trying to sugarcoat things.





As the song goes, ';there's no easy way to break somebody's heart';
So (name here) I've been evaluating our relationship and I believe that this isn't what I am looking for. So it was fun while it lasted I wish you the best in finding the right person for you.. you take care now ok goodbye.





or you can be like my friends who think you have to be mean and say you know i dont like you please dont call me anymore.





pros and cons to being nice.. its taken me 2 yrs to get someone to stop calling i had to block him thru my cellphone company, yahoo messenger and lie about where i live.. good luck
Just say after a lot of thought and feel that you and I don't have as much in common as I would like so I would like to be friends and not date anymore. I am sure he will be ok with it you never know maybe he is feeling the same way.
Coming from a guy, I think just telling him is your best option....





What I don't understand is that clearly your dislike of this guy should be pretty obvious, even to him. I don't know why he already hasn't been noticing that things aren't going smoothly...





good luck
I don't think he will be that crushed because its only been 2 months





Tell him that you guys don't have anything in common and you just don't feel the click and there's no feelings flowing
Tell him that the feelings are gone, and it'd be unfair to him because you really want him to be happy and he deserves someone who really loves him back.





I guess that's a good way to (:
end it now, the later you end it, the more he will feel like theres something there because youve stayed with him so long, do it in a text, always the best way
Tell him exactly how you feel. He may be crushed now, he may be not be. Eventually he'll get over it and be better off. You're only giving him false hope by sugar coating it.
just be straight foward and say i am not interested in you know more...so its over.....he should be able to take it...hes a man
he will obviously be crushed if he had feelings for you.


just be truthful and tell him that he's not the one for you.



Its best to just be honest. Just let him down gently.
tell him ';its over';


its not like hes gunna cry