How should i break up with him?

i've been with my bf for 2 years. but for the last 6 months its gotten really hard to try to keep us working. We've been stuck in the same place for a bit over a year. That is only seeing him maybe twice a week and nothing else.





I'm tired of it %26amp; i can't keep trying to make it work anymore. I need to break up with him but i still want to be friends with him afterwards. How can i do that?How should i break up with him?
be simple- Honey we should take a break and be friends for a while but in a couple years we could share the love we had earlier.How should i break up with him?
After the end of a relationship, there's no guarantee that ex-partners will want to still be friends. Plus, ex-lovers often find it very difficult to just be friends. That is because the original relationship was intimate and it is a difficult task to shift to a strictly ';just friends'; type of relationship.





Now about how to tell him, I think the best way is to be honest and say the relationship isn't working for this and that (be specific) reason. All break-ups are difficult to deal with, but there really isn't one set of instructions that'll work for everyone. But being honest, specific and polite is always helpful. Good luck
ask him if he think it is working out. tell him why you don't think it is, and let the conversation go from there.


realize that it may be hard to be friends directly afterwards... but give you and him time to heal the broken hearts.


after time has passed it is much more plausible to become friends again... if u try to rush the friend thing there could be hurt feelings and you could lose that friendship forever, i know from experience.
Do it the old fasion way and say its you not him and you still REEAAALLYY want to be friends.


After that leave him for about two weeks and text or call and ask if he wants to HANG out, go to lunch or somethink.





Okay i hope this helps.


xxx
well if you are dead sure that u wanna brkup then just go and tell him that now it has to be a different relationship and that's frndshp! if he insisits on working it all out then just give one last chance to it..and then be firm and say that u just wanna be his frnd ..!





good luck:)
Hello. Well, go up to him in public and say ';baby, i want to break up, i want to be free. Then, invite him home for some good bye sex.
Just have a talk with him and explain how you feel about your relationship and maybe he's seeing things the same way ....
its not what you want honey


if your breaking up with him its his choice if he wants to still be friends so just do it and what happens will happen
You should just be out straight with him, no point in wasting time you need to think of your own feelings too.





What will be will be...but put yourself first..good luck x
yeah. i thnk you should. you seem young go out in the world you dont want to miss out on someone over this one.
You're a very cruel woman.


It's because your a lesbian right?


:D
just be honest and direct dont beat around the bush about what you want
this thing is not possible
who cares?