He says no and begs and then just resorts to pretending were still dating. I go to college with him, so i cant really avoid him.
I like him and thats a problem too.
IDK he was my first everything and i have never been with another man and im just curious. I dont want to cheat on him.
What do i say to him to get him to understand that its over.
I would write more, to explain myself, but then nobody would answer it.Help me. how the hell do you break up with a guy if he says no and you cannot avoid him?
Just ignore him as in pretend that he doesn't exist. If he's persistently stalking or harrassing you, then go to the police and get an order of protection.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How do i break up with a tough guy without him getting steamed???
I want to break up with him because i don't have feelings for him anymore. I cant even stand to be around him or even hear his name and he is always getting into trouble. Help!! I never broke up with anyone before.How do i break up with a tough guy without him getting steamed???
just say lets take a break i think we should get to know each other better first before we go out.c++ ltd
just say lets take a break i think we should get to know each other better first before we go out.
How do i break up with him?
in short:
dating 7 months
don't like him anymore
still wanna be friends, really
i like someone else
i'm afraid he's too attached
i've been trying to gather the courage to do it, and i know it's worse too continue letting him think i like him. but rite now i can barely look at him because i know how much i'm going to hurt him. this is killing me. how do i gather the courage to do it?How do i break up with him?
Be yourself relax and say. this is not really working out and I still wanna be friends because your a nice guyHow do i break up with him?
Try to put the shoe on the other foot. If you were on the other end of this situation how would you like to be told? Any way you look at it, he's going to be hurt, it won't be the first time nor the last. You need to speak to him in person too, no texting.... that's weak and more hurtful. Sometimes the anticipation of a situation, whatever it maybe, is worst then the actual event/situation itself. Just ask him to meet you somewhere, during the day, be nice when you see him and then just be out with it. Say something like, ';look there is no easy way for me to tell you this but my feelings for you have changed and I just don't feel a (romantic) connection anymore.....'; don't tell him that you've meet someone else. Just remember put the shoe on the other foot. Just do it and get it over with. You'll feel better...he'll be hurt and possibly pissed (normal) and you'll both move on.
Don't listen to Tom B, of course I'm sad she dumped you but still...
Don't feel pressured, it's not fair that this is the way things work, I know. I'm afraid you only know how to let him down easily. A real man should learn to know that it is ok to be friends, but that's hard to find in a guy. Girls and guys have it hard in relationships. One person always get hurt, one for hurting someone else, and the other for being hurt. But, maybe your lucky, and he'll be okay with it. Just, let him down easily, dont mention there's someone else. GOOD LUCK!! I'LL PRAY FOR YOU!
Just do it. Be honest, but don't tell him things that will only hurt him (aka, I'm into another guy)... it's on a need-to-know basis. Tell him you just don't feel the same way about him as you used to, but you still treasure his friendship and want to stay close. 7 months is not a long time, and you both have a lifetime to find other people.
Just be honest. Rehearse what you want to say, and then take him aside, somewhere private where you can be alone together. But make it quick. With feelings flying, the last thing either of you needs is for it to be a long, drawn-out thing.
my friend had this same problem. shes been going out with her boyfriend for a year, and her attraction with him just started to fade. and she also likes another guy a lot (i was hanging out with her and they obviously both liked eachother and were flirting). she tried being really mean to him so he would want to break up with her and maybe make it easier, but that is NOT what you should do. she ended up putting a note in his locker that she really likes him as a friend, but just a friend. and she also wants a break-up hug haha. hopefully i helped?
ive been in these kind of situations, idk y but i just waited until the girl broke it off, and she still likes me, she just broke up with me bc i would never talk to her. I would just tell him str8 up, you like him as a friend, and you Truly want to be his friend, and only as a friend. i no itll be akward around him, so just act like it never happened, and subtly try to hook him up with someone, but dont try to be a big matchmaker with it. if hes a sensitive kind of guy, hug him everytime you see him, itll make him feel better, i promise. (dont mind my privious questions, i was hacked)
First off, just accept that you can't be friends. You are about to put him through a lot of pain, so he's not really going to want to be friends after that, unless in some lame attempt to ';win you back';.
Honestly, just make a list of reasons you're dumping him. Go over the list for about a week. Get together at his place, and have your car so you can leave. Dump him fast and clean and get out of there.
What if the guy you like don;t like you that much? What if he playing you? Your current boyfriend, you need to let him down gentle by saying i am really sorry but our relationship isnt working for me anymore. In time, he will be ok again, Honestly is better than living a lie, decieving him and wasting time on both yours and his.
umm well its never easy but say the i feel like were growing apart and i dont think its working out thing,
and make sure u say '; i knoww u probably hate me right know but i hope we can still be freinds'; cus if u dont say the first 7 words he might just forget about u
and dont go out with the other guy for a little wile so he dosnt hate u for dumping him and going out with the other guy
k i hope i helped one way or another
now can u help me its only fair lol
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i dont know sorry you can try one last kiss and hug or something but i need more details. My only breakup was super super super easy. you can do what i managed to pull off. Lead on that your gonna break up with him but keep denying. If he was like my gf they will get mad and eventually try to seem bigger by bailing first. That way they broke up with you.
If the essence of the relationship is gone which is LOVE.
Then there's no reason left for you to stay together.
If you really can't ';break it to him gently'; tell in a letter.
Make it long. And be reasonable, tell the truth that you have
no feelings for him anymore.
You just have to do it.
I had a friend in the same situation.
She finally just did it, and felt better about it.
It took him a while to get over it, and stop acting immature about it all, and move on and be friends, but they are friends now. Good luck(:
Don't stay with him if you don't Have feelings. Just be HONEST and tell him why you are breaking up with him. Don't lie because it will only make thinks worse. Good luck with keeping your friendship and to start a new relationship.
Well since you barely look at him, he probably knows something is up. Just do it so both of you can move on. Yeah his heart will be broken, tears will probably come out and who knows, he may be thinking the same thing.
Just get it over with.
Lulling him into thinking that everything's fine is just going to make it worse. Don't listen to Mr. ';I have depression, feel sorry for me';.
tell him exactly how you feel, thats the only way.
answer mine
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Tell him you don't feel the same as you used too. Its not healthy to pretend.
Invite me over and let him walk in on us, he'll know it's over then.
just txt him. i no it sounds bad but it is much easier and say there too much goin on in ur life rite now and send him another txt and say still friends?
hope i helped :l
well since you aint interested anymore jus tell him straight up...the more you wait the harder it will be
say this whole dateing thing is cool but u like being just friends more.look its all apart of life.
try to stay with him... mine dumped me and i've got serious depression now
thru email!!!!!!!!
just say this aint working out i think we should just be friends
dating 7 months
don't like him anymore
still wanna be friends, really
i like someone else
i'm afraid he's too attached
i've been trying to gather the courage to do it, and i know it's worse too continue letting him think i like him. but rite now i can barely look at him because i know how much i'm going to hurt him. this is killing me. how do i gather the courage to do it?How do i break up with him?
Be yourself relax and say. this is not really working out and I still wanna be friends because your a nice guyHow do i break up with him?
Try to put the shoe on the other foot. If you were on the other end of this situation how would you like to be told? Any way you look at it, he's going to be hurt, it won't be the first time nor the last. You need to speak to him in person too, no texting.... that's weak and more hurtful. Sometimes the anticipation of a situation, whatever it maybe, is worst then the actual event/situation itself. Just ask him to meet you somewhere, during the day, be nice when you see him and then just be out with it. Say something like, ';look there is no easy way for me to tell you this but my feelings for you have changed and I just don't feel a (romantic) connection anymore.....'; don't tell him that you've meet someone else. Just remember put the shoe on the other foot. Just do it and get it over with. You'll feel better...he'll be hurt and possibly pissed (normal) and you'll both move on.
Don't listen to Tom B, of course I'm sad she dumped you but still...
Don't feel pressured, it's not fair that this is the way things work, I know. I'm afraid you only know how to let him down easily. A real man should learn to know that it is ok to be friends, but that's hard to find in a guy. Girls and guys have it hard in relationships. One person always get hurt, one for hurting someone else, and the other for being hurt. But, maybe your lucky, and he'll be okay with it. Just, let him down easily, dont mention there's someone else. GOOD LUCK!! I'LL PRAY FOR YOU!
Just do it. Be honest, but don't tell him things that will only hurt him (aka, I'm into another guy)... it's on a need-to-know basis. Tell him you just don't feel the same way about him as you used to, but you still treasure his friendship and want to stay close. 7 months is not a long time, and you both have a lifetime to find other people.
Just be honest. Rehearse what you want to say, and then take him aside, somewhere private where you can be alone together. But make it quick. With feelings flying, the last thing either of you needs is for it to be a long, drawn-out thing.
my friend had this same problem. shes been going out with her boyfriend for a year, and her attraction with him just started to fade. and she also likes another guy a lot (i was hanging out with her and they obviously both liked eachother and were flirting). she tried being really mean to him so he would want to break up with her and maybe make it easier, but that is NOT what you should do. she ended up putting a note in his locker that she really likes him as a friend, but just a friend. and she also wants a break-up hug haha. hopefully i helped?
ive been in these kind of situations, idk y but i just waited until the girl broke it off, and she still likes me, she just broke up with me bc i would never talk to her. I would just tell him str8 up, you like him as a friend, and you Truly want to be his friend, and only as a friend. i no itll be akward around him, so just act like it never happened, and subtly try to hook him up with someone, but dont try to be a big matchmaker with it. if hes a sensitive kind of guy, hug him everytime you see him, itll make him feel better, i promise. (dont mind my privious questions, i was hacked)
First off, just accept that you can't be friends. You are about to put him through a lot of pain, so he's not really going to want to be friends after that, unless in some lame attempt to ';win you back';.
Honestly, just make a list of reasons you're dumping him. Go over the list for about a week. Get together at his place, and have your car so you can leave. Dump him fast and clean and get out of there.
What if the guy you like don;t like you that much? What if he playing you? Your current boyfriend, you need to let him down gentle by saying i am really sorry but our relationship isnt working for me anymore. In time, he will be ok again, Honestly is better than living a lie, decieving him and wasting time on both yours and his.
umm well its never easy but say the i feel like were growing apart and i dont think its working out thing,
and make sure u say '; i knoww u probably hate me right know but i hope we can still be freinds'; cus if u dont say the first 7 words he might just forget about u
and dont go out with the other guy for a little wile so he dosnt hate u for dumping him and going out with the other guy
k i hope i helped one way or another
now can u help me its only fair lol
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
i dont know sorry you can try one last kiss and hug or something but i need more details. My only breakup was super super super easy. you can do what i managed to pull off. Lead on that your gonna break up with him but keep denying. If he was like my gf they will get mad and eventually try to seem bigger by bailing first. That way they broke up with you.
If the essence of the relationship is gone which is LOVE.
Then there's no reason left for you to stay together.
If you really can't ';break it to him gently'; tell in a letter.
Make it long. And be reasonable, tell the truth that you have
no feelings for him anymore.
You just have to do it.
I had a friend in the same situation.
She finally just did it, and felt better about it.
It took him a while to get over it, and stop acting immature about it all, and move on and be friends, but they are friends now. Good luck(:
Don't stay with him if you don't Have feelings. Just be HONEST and tell him why you are breaking up with him. Don't lie because it will only make thinks worse. Good luck with keeping your friendship and to start a new relationship.
Well since you barely look at him, he probably knows something is up. Just do it so both of you can move on. Yeah his heart will be broken, tears will probably come out and who knows, he may be thinking the same thing.
Just get it over with.
Lulling him into thinking that everything's fine is just going to make it worse. Don't listen to Mr. ';I have depression, feel sorry for me';.
tell him exactly how you feel, thats the only way.
answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
Tell him you don't feel the same as you used too. Its not healthy to pretend.
Invite me over and let him walk in on us, he'll know it's over then.
just txt him. i no it sounds bad but it is much easier and say there too much goin on in ur life rite now and send him another txt and say still friends?
hope i helped :l
well since you aint interested anymore jus tell him straight up...the more you wait the harder it will be
say this whole dateing thing is cool but u like being just friends more.look its all apart of life.
try to stay with him... mine dumped me and i've got serious depression now
thru email!!!!!!!!
just say this aint working out i think we should just be friends
How do I help him deal with a break-up?
One of my good guy-friends just got dumped by his girlfriend over the phone. He called me and I gave him some pep talk to make him feel better. I've gone through a break-up before, except I was cheated on, before, so I can relate to what he's feeling. Unfortunately, I took the cutting route rather than actually 'dealing' with it. I really want to give him the best advice %26amp; make him feel great about himself. Any suggestions?How do I help him deal with a break-up?
here's what you do:
What kind of closure do you need?
Let go, find someone else, get married, and live well.
That's all you need. Her actions should be enough. Why should you have to tell her off? What do you need to prove? Just let go.
If you absolutely NEED to get revenge, then this is what you do:
Live well. The best revenge is to live well, and get everything you ever wanted in life. Live well in spite of the people that crap in your Post Toasties. Live well, and be generous with the people that took from you. Let them understand their mistake, and be reminded of it as you live well while totally moving beyond them.
Nothing burns worse than to know you had something great, and botched it because you were a fool. And the best part is that you don't even need to say anything. All you have to do is live a good life and forget about them.
THAT is how you get closure.How do I help him deal with a break-up?
I don't deal with break ups too much. just make him feel special.
here's what you do:
What kind of closure do you need?
Let go, find someone else, get married, and live well.
That's all you need. Her actions should be enough. Why should you have to tell her off? What do you need to prove? Just let go.
If you absolutely NEED to get revenge, then this is what you do:
Live well. The best revenge is to live well, and get everything you ever wanted in life. Live well in spite of the people that crap in your Post Toasties. Live well, and be generous with the people that took from you. Let them understand their mistake, and be reminded of it as you live well while totally moving beyond them.
Nothing burns worse than to know you had something great, and botched it because you were a fool. And the best part is that you don't even need to say anything. All you have to do is live a good life and forget about them.
THAT is how you get closure.How do I help him deal with a break-up?
I don't deal with break ups too much. just make him feel special.
How do I get over him and why did he break up with me?
My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. He had no real reason except that we'd have to move on at some point anyways. This is so out of character for him. He seems like hes a totally different person. Not even a week earlier he had promised me he was going to try his hardest to make things perfect between us again, and he did for awhile. and after he dumped me i tried so hard to get him back, i said i would do anything, and listed everything i was willing to do. He won't even talk to me about it. It's like he went from being the perfect man to an arrogant asshole. He 'fell out of love' with me in 4 days. How do i get him back? or at least get over him. it's the worst feeling in the world loving someone with all your heart and them not even caring.How do I get over him and why did he break up with me?
Part of getting over him is not caring why he broke up with you. If he doesn't want to be with you anymore, his loss. Don't try running back to him, don't call him, act like you don't need him. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and he's just another bad one. Don't fall in love with someone who doesn't love you back! Find another guy, just know life goes on!How do I get over him and why did he break up with me?
I agree that it is the worst feeling ever.
If you want to get over him, it wont be so easy since you loved him a whole lot.
First of all it could be that he changed but i personally think that with that short amount of time he maybe-just maybe-has some difficulty.
I also think that maybe he really isnt over you yet since he doesnt want to talk about it. Give him some time and wait until the both of you can open up and talk about the situation together.
first, get the crying off your system. it's ok to cry it lets the feelings out.
second, when you're done and through with hurting and crying go out and have fun. do that whether you're alone or with your friends just have fun. get a makeover or go shopping.
last, if you see your ex, make sure he sees that you're ok and you've gotten way over him. smile, wave then walk away. leave him dumbfounded and sorry that he left you
i've been there before. this is 4 years later .. and i'm still not completely over him. as a matter of fact, i just saw him sunday for the first time in a couple of months and it wasn't easy, you just have to keep moving on. basically, accept the situation for what it is and you will be a peace with it.
he left me after i got back from a week vacation with my parents. a couple months later he was with my distant cousin. they broke up just recently ... and now im waiting for him to come crawling back to me ! lol i refuse to take him back, but i do manage to be civil.
if he broke up with you for no reason at all..its no point into trying to get him back. hes a loser.
he'll see it in the long run of what he lost and how good he had it.
if your trying to get back with him your just giving him more power to hurt you.theres no special way to get over someone and it wont be easy,but you can start by stop begging for love back
stop calling him, let him has his space.
try to pull your self together before you get hurt again.
just LET GO...
I think you should move on, cause then if your are together again then he will not be happy which, will make you not happy. I think by the symptoms that you are telling me is that maybe he was cheating on you or maybe he found a ';better'; girl for him.... its better for you to move on, cause then you can meet better and new people. A way to forget all about him is to got to the mall whit friends and look for a new bf. This all got for you. Now is time for you to decide....good luck!!!
Part of getting over him is not caring why he broke up with you. If he doesn't want to be with you anymore, his loss. Don't try running back to him, don't call him, act like you don't need him. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and he's just another bad one. Don't fall in love with someone who doesn't love you back! Find another guy, just know life goes on!How do I get over him and why did he break up with me?
I agree that it is the worst feeling ever.
If you want to get over him, it wont be so easy since you loved him a whole lot.
First of all it could be that he changed but i personally think that with that short amount of time he maybe-just maybe-has some difficulty.
I also think that maybe he really isnt over you yet since he doesnt want to talk about it. Give him some time and wait until the both of you can open up and talk about the situation together.
first, get the crying off your system. it's ok to cry it lets the feelings out.
second, when you're done and through with hurting and crying go out and have fun. do that whether you're alone or with your friends just have fun. get a makeover or go shopping.
last, if you see your ex, make sure he sees that you're ok and you've gotten way over him. smile, wave then walk away. leave him dumbfounded and sorry that he left you
i've been there before. this is 4 years later .. and i'm still not completely over him. as a matter of fact, i just saw him sunday for the first time in a couple of months and it wasn't easy, you just have to keep moving on. basically, accept the situation for what it is and you will be a peace with it.
he left me after i got back from a week vacation with my parents. a couple months later he was with my distant cousin. they broke up just recently ... and now im waiting for him to come crawling back to me ! lol i refuse to take him back, but i do manage to be civil.
if he broke up with you for no reason at all..its no point into trying to get him back. hes a loser.
he'll see it in the long run of what he lost and how good he had it.
if your trying to get back with him your just giving him more power to hurt you.theres no special way to get over someone and it wont be easy,but you can start by stop begging for love back
stop calling him, let him has his space.
try to pull your self together before you get hurt again.
just LET GO...
I think you should move on, cause then if your are together again then he will not be happy which, will make you not happy. I think by the symptoms that you are telling me is that maybe he was cheating on you or maybe he found a ';better'; girl for him.... its better for you to move on, cause then you can meet better and new people. A way to forget all about him is to got to the mall whit friends and look for a new bf. This all got for you. Now is time for you to decide....good luck!!!
I have a boyfriend he is younger than me and he is really nice but i want to break up with him HOW?
We have been dating for a few months we are kind of back and forth we broke up twice but we always end up back together. But this time I am ready to get it over with By it being so close to V-day I don't want to do it but I don't want to get a gift and then break up with him HELP ME!!I have a boyfriend he is younger than me and he is really nice but i want to break up with him HOW?
get him a date with your daughter.I have a boyfriend he is younger than me and he is really nice but i want to break up with him HOW?
Do it now. Break up with him ASAP. I'm serious. I broke up with one of my ex girlfriends on valentine's day. It was a mutual break, but it was on valentine's day. If you don't wanna be there, just have the courage to call him and tell him that you are feeling different about the relationship, and that you don't like the way you feel.
tell him you need some time to clear your head and think things through. He'll respond one of two ways: either he'll give you time, with which you take and tell him in a few days (without contact) that you want out, or he will spaz out, with which you get upset and tell him that you just wanted to think about some things, that this always happens, and that you can't do it anymore.
You could do that, or you could just be honest with him. That usually works too.
umm i would say... be real with it mabe he has strong feelings for you. think about it how he treats you? is he really in to you? ... but if you do decide that you really wan to break up with him then talk to him calm and tel him how you truly feel. if you are honest and your evidence is secured than he will meet you with the understanding. don't let it be too long. stay friends with him.
get him a date with your daughter.I have a boyfriend he is younger than me and he is really nice but i want to break up with him HOW?
Do it now. Break up with him ASAP. I'm serious. I broke up with one of my ex girlfriends on valentine's day. It was a mutual break, but it was on valentine's day. If you don't wanna be there, just have the courage to call him and tell him that you are feeling different about the relationship, and that you don't like the way you feel.
tell him you need some time to clear your head and think things through. He'll respond one of two ways: either he'll give you time, with which you take and tell him in a few days (without contact) that you want out, or he will spaz out, with which you get upset and tell him that you just wanted to think about some things, that this always happens, and that you can't do it anymore.
You could do that, or you could just be honest with him. That usually works too.
umm i would say... be real with it mabe he has strong feelings for you. think about it how he treats you? is he really in to you? ... but if you do decide that you really wan to break up with him then talk to him calm and tel him how you truly feel. if you are honest and your evidence is secured than he will meet you with the understanding. don't let it be too long. stay friends with him.
How can I break up with my boyfriend we live together at my mother home and I own him money?
One minute we get on and next we are fighting. I've told him many times, I want to break up but he want to work it out and my family don鈥檛 like himHow can I break up with my boyfriend we live together at my mother home and I own him money?
Tell him that the money you owe him can be considered as his rent to your mother for staying in her home, then sling him out.How can I break up with my boyfriend we live together at my mother home and I own him money?
Thank goodness it's your mother's home and not his otherwise you might be stuck.
Tell him you are through
If he's got nowhere to go then you might want to give him a reasonable time to get somewhere. Put it on the calendar so there's no argument.
Beg borrow or steal the money you owe him. It might be enough for him to find a flat or something.
Harden your heart
If you want to end it then tell him.You can always repay him the money when you have got it.Mind its not unusual to fight especially living with family.If your feelings have changed towards him then put your foot down %26amp; tell him it is over %26amp; he has to find somewhere else to live.Good Luck
Change the locks on the doors and put his stuff outside.
.ihope this helps in some wayMaybe if you tell him if he wants to work on the relationship you need your space and the more you are together the further apart you grow .And if loves you like you say then tell him that he has to prove this and moving out giving you this space would be a start or talk to your parents and get them to tell you both you have to move out ,Then the next step is once you are apart you become more stronger and your able to tell him you like your freedom
Well then I think your heart is telling you to finish it but he's making it difficult for you. The fact that you owe him money is neither here nor there, just make an arrangement to repay it and let him know you are set on finishing with him no matter how he feels.
I would sort out a payment plan and call his parents to pick him up.
Just tell him to get his butt out.....its the only way.
get your own place first...if you owe him money then tell him that you'll pay it back when you have it....if your not happy with this guy ask him to move out and get on with your life
If you dont love him and dont want to be with him dont stay together
the only way to do it is tell him, be honest and tell him how u feel but stand your ground be strong and dont give in. Tell him you have had some good times together and that you love him as a friend and will always remember good times you have shared but thats it for you and you want to move on.
If he still doesnt accept it tell him to b****r off!!!
hasn't anyone in your family got the guts to throw him out your making a big deal out of it//borrow the money to pay him off and make sure his bags are full and he's got no reason to show up again
I wonder how people own their boyfriend money, with me my guy gives me from his heart and i bet this is real love. Why should the one u love borrow from u ? its a crazy idea. It simply means one day ur kids will pay for the breastfeeding and parental care. And perhaps ur guy will pay for the sex. hahahaha soundz crazy.
Tell him that the money you owe him can be considered as his rent to your mother for staying in her home, then sling him out.How can I break up with my boyfriend we live together at my mother home and I own him money?
Thank goodness it's your mother's home and not his otherwise you might be stuck.
Tell him you are through
If he's got nowhere to go then you might want to give him a reasonable time to get somewhere. Put it on the calendar so there's no argument.
Beg borrow or steal the money you owe him. It might be enough for him to find a flat or something.
Harden your heart
If you want to end it then tell him.You can always repay him the money when you have got it.Mind its not unusual to fight especially living with family.If your feelings have changed towards him then put your foot down %26amp; tell him it is over %26amp; he has to find somewhere else to live.Good Luck
Change the locks on the doors and put his stuff outside.
.ihope this helps in some wayMaybe if you tell him if he wants to work on the relationship you need your space and the more you are together the further apart you grow .And if loves you like you say then tell him that he has to prove this and moving out giving you this space would be a start or talk to your parents and get them to tell you both you have to move out ,Then the next step is once you are apart you become more stronger and your able to tell him you like your freedom
Well then I think your heart is telling you to finish it but he's making it difficult for you. The fact that you owe him money is neither here nor there, just make an arrangement to repay it and let him know you are set on finishing with him no matter how he feels.
I would sort out a payment plan and call his parents to pick him up.
Just tell him to get his butt out.....its the only way.
get your own place first...if you owe him money then tell him that you'll pay it back when you have it....if your not happy with this guy ask him to move out and get on with your life
If you dont love him and dont want to be with him dont stay together
the only way to do it is tell him, be honest and tell him how u feel but stand your ground be strong and dont give in. Tell him you have had some good times together and that you love him as a friend and will always remember good times you have shared but thats it for you and you want to move on.
If he still doesnt accept it tell him to b****r off!!!
hasn't anyone in your family got the guts to throw him out your making a big deal out of it//borrow the money to pay him off and make sure his bags are full and he's got no reason to show up again
I wonder how people own their boyfriend money, with me my guy gives me from his heart and i bet this is real love. Why should the one u love borrow from u ? its a crazy idea. It simply means one day ur kids will pay for the breastfeeding and parental care. And perhaps ur guy will pay for the sex. hahahaha soundz crazy.
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