How do I break up with him when we work together?

I have been dating a man for 3 years who works at the same company as me. He is a nice guy and our relationship is ok, but I know now that he is just not the right one for me. How do I break this off while we still work at the same company? It's not like we work side by side at the same desk, but it is a small place, everyone knows that we're a couple etc.. Will I have to find another job in order to do this comfortably?How do I break up with him when we work together?
If you really dont want to be with this guy


then you should break it off soon so you just don't to lead


him on. You can still work in the same place, because if you don't move


to a different job then eventually he is. Also, you should think about the future.


What if this guy eventually turns out to be a good friend later on?





I hope this helps..good luck :)How do I break up with him when we work together?
Well seeing as you two have been together for so long it may be easier for both of you if you find another job. However, times are hard and it may be more realistic for you to stay at the company and be mature about the situation. You both will have a hard time and it won't go unnoticed, but just remember it's between the two of you and no one else.
Ouch! Sticky. First off, kudos to you for not being a drama monger. Most mature people have seen this before and realize that breakups just happen. No drama is necessary. There doesn't have to be ';blame'; or ';taking sides'; at work. It sounds like you'll be able to do this nicely. I think the best option is to get together with the guy and talk it over. It's never a comfortable conversation. I doubt either of you want to lose your job over this. Co-workers don't need to know anything. An old blue-blood rule of thumb is ';Never complain, never explain.'; They'll catch on sooner or later and you can simply say that the relationship just didn't work out.
You shouldn't have to even consider finding another job because of him. Just explain to him and break it down gently for him as not everyone likes getting dumped. If people at your work start asking questions and keeps butting in...report them to your boss...it may seem childish but you'r allowed to have your own opinions and reasons, and you shouldn't feel obligated to reveal personal information to people you don't want to. You are entitled to your own privacy! So if it gets bad, let your boss know that your privacy is being invaded by fellow colleagues and that you don't feel comfortable...he/she should understand and take action.
I don't think you'll have to find another job... I broke up with my BF two days ago and we're in the same school, and same classes except for Pre-Athletics. I'm not sure what to say... I just walked up to him and said ';It's over. I'm sorry.'; and stuff.
Yes. That is what sucks about dating at work. Once you break up with him, their will be tension at work. After a while, though things will ease alittle, but even do, you still will feel awkward around him.
Oooo, be very careful, treat this with the up most care. You need your job and he needs his. Be blunt and just tell him your confused, you think you might be gay. That's all I got, sorry. Good luck sweetie!
Explain to him in a nice way, im sure you can still work in the same spot just dont get all jelous if you see him dating someone else
Maybe another job is a good idea. You can tell him to come to the toilet section or somewhere more discrete and tell him you need some time alone.....you know the drill
Im a guy and its hard i know when a girl breaks up with me... but im pretty sure ive seen this every where men and women just keep going with their lives... break up with him just take it easy on him...
You always of the option to make things comfortable.
Pat could be male or female





probly Irish too
se how it goes break up and see how u and the people around yuo take it