How do you break up with a guy without hurting him?

I really like me bf and he really likes me but I don't think that its working out anymore and I want to break up with him without hurting him. HELP!!!!!How do you break up with a guy without hurting him?
Okay well its good you didn't do this yet because most girls do it wrong anyway. They often treat breakups as they would like to be broken up with...well thats what they think anyway. You have to just be honest with him. Be honest with what you feel. The one thing i've learned from being cheated on so many times is that so many girls do everything except tell the truth, when thats all I ever wanted to hear. Of course, a guy doesn't want to know if he's a terrible boyfriend but don't lead him on to think that you still want to be with him.





Sit him down and talk with him. Tell him that you want to break up. Tell him that things aren't working out the way you expected and that he's a good boyfriend but you don't feel that way about him enough anymore to keep things going. Reassure that its not his fault of course but stand firm on the breakup. He's gonna try to give you excuses and reasons for you to stay which is why you have to be honest about it just being your unhappiness.





The fact of the matter is, its impossible to break up with someone without hurting them. I don't know why people believe that it is. There's an emotional attachment that you are severing so its supposed to hurt. The question really is how much do you want them to hurt. Some take the selfish route and just do that whole ';i'm gonna avoid or ignore them until they get the point'; or ';i'm gonna be a total jerk to them until they want to leave.'; All of this because people are scared to be honest. If you care about him and wants whats best, break his heart the right way...he deserves that respect.