I've been dating this guy for a month and a couple weeks, and I need to break up with him. He didn't screw up or anything, I just don't feel attracted to him anymore, and I don't see us together. I don't see him as a boyfriend, and I need to move on.
How should I break up with him? What should I say? If he asks why I'm breaking up with him, what am I supposed to tell him, considering I don't have a specific reason?How should I break up with him?
';considering I don't have a specific reason';. But you do have a specific reason.
People get funny about rejection because they read too much into it. We are not all suited to everybody. And when we are not suited it does not mean one of us is a worthless human being who will never be suited to anyone. Breaking up is various degrees of inconvenience and sadness, but it is not disasterous unless the person is illogically tying it up with their self-worth. It is unreasonable to expect everyone to find us attractive and we have to learn that it does not devalue us as people.How should I break up with him?
Tell him ';You love his company and the past month has been fun, however you are not ready to be in a relationship at this time'; You can use school, work and other obligations too. ';I Idont have the time to persue a ';serious'; relationship and I dont feel its fair to you. If he insist he will take any time you can give. Then say,'; You feel that way now...but in the end you will feel hurt and neglected...I would hate to ruin what could be a good friendship...trust me. Im sorry';. Thats it..;...if he cant deal...its his problem
Honestly, just tell him what you said here. That's sounds perfect to me! It's not hurtful and it's truthful, so you won't get tripped up trying to make something up when you talk to him. He deserves the truth.
Just tell him flat out, that the spark that you thought was there, wasnt more then a friendship, Id let it off quickly before he gets too 'attatched'.
just tell him the truth just say you not feeling it. that you don't love him tell him he did nothing wrong.
Break up with him and u don't have to say why.
Be straight forward and honest. And PLEASE do it in person.
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