How should my mom break up with him?

I think he's inconsiderate. Take this morning, he calls asks her if she wants him to bring her biscuit and gravy and a coffee. She says yes. He shows up, with only one coffee. He says, ';I couldn't figure out how to carry 2 coffees so I didn't get yours.'; he does stuff like this over and over again. She did try to break up with him, but he always shows up to redeem himself and it lasts for like 2 seconds. What can she do to make him not want her?How should my mom break up with him?
She didn't try and break up with him, because there is no try, you either do it or don't, and she didn't because she clearly doesn't want too.


No one really cares if you think he's inconsiderate, because it is none of your business.How should my mom break up with him?
He is thoughtless and selfish plus inconsiderate. Nobody needs to put up with that type attitude and leave it to your mom. Yes she needs to break her relationship off with him and start all over again.


He'll never be thoughtful in reality and she needs to do some serious thinking. She simply needs to tell him she has found someone else and to please don't bother her. If it can be short sweet and simple as that. Although maybe she finds other quality's that she hangs on to him. You need to talk with her about his real selfish attitude. Good Luck
Applepie, you're thinkin' of a different kind of biscuit.. lol.. You must not be an American..














I agree with another answerer - there's no ';trying'; to break up. You either break up or you don't. By breakin' up with him, she's hopin' he'll change - he shows that he does, like you said for about two seconds and once they are back in a relationship, he shows his true self. It's an endless pattern. If you want to help your mom, just talk to her and ask her to dump him - change her number, locks at the house, don't accept calls from him at work, etc.. She *can* get him out of her life if she is truly tired of him.
You and your mother are in control of your lives, but you don't seem to know this. Your mother does not have to make him ';not want her'; she simply has to say ';goodbye';. You and your mother are real nice people, see things the way they really are, this guy is a loser, and you need to say goodbye to him. He is an abuser, be careful, but get rid of him.
SHOW Him what he does like when he is watching tv be like huney what do you want to wtch he goes sports you flip the weather chanel sorry i had no room for your feelings only mine after a few times he will get the idea
it doesnt seem that she really wants to because she is still with him, i would talk to her and share your feelings about it and tell her how it makes you feel to see this guy treating your mother like dirt.
she can tell him straight and forward she is done with him. perid. that is how adults do things and if shes a woman she can figure and do this herself.
im with jo.


but you can be a snotty like brat and make him hate you,


tell your mom you dont want a dad like this


and she should understand
this is not your problem or responsibility - BUT take notes so that this never happens to you.





never need a man more then you need yourself.
gawd, she needs to dump that slimy pig and fast! She can do so much better, just tell him where to go!


by the way... no offence but why does she want GRAVY with a biscuit and coffee..? ew
He's ridiculous.


This girl have just to tell him:





';You are no working as a good bf. If you feel like you cannot be better, I let you go now!';
Only she can answer that, sorry.
Be mean to him, and should bring another man around him