How can I break up with him and not hurt him?

Ok, so he's really in to me, but he's just not what i'm looking for. I really do care for him a lot. He thinks everything is ok, so I really can't bring up the break up out of the blue, can I? Any advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!How can I break up with him and not hurt him?
Guys don't take a second thought when they break up with us. Just tell him, he is a great guy, but he's not the great guy for you.How can I break up with him and not hurt him?
Because he's really into you he's more than likely going to hurt, however, the best thing for you to do is to be honest with him and not prolong it, especially since he's not what your looking for.





Be open and honest and explain to him what you just said, he's a great guy and you care for him, but right now he's not what your looking for.





Best of luck to you!
Guys feel the most helpless when girls cry about things we can't help with. Sit down and talk to him about the things you want in your life and let him know that you've tried but you just don't see this happening while you're with him. Cry alot and he'll feel the sense of not being able to do a thing for you. Besides, you're really not sure if he's as into you as you think (girls love to think that). Maybe he's feeling the ame way. It's better to try to be friends.
If he is that into you, then you will not be able to avoid hurting him. You just have to tell him that lately you have been thinking and that although you love him as a friend, that beyond that you don't see how the relationship can continue. the way he wants it to. You then have to move on with your life knowing that he will probably not be in it.
if you really dont want anything with him tell him you guys can be friends but nothin else. that also happened to me long time he was a great guy but it was just not for me. u have to end it before its too late for him. and that way u wont hurt him to much. just be honest and everything is ganna be great..gud luck. and by da way you answer you gave me it was great thankz alot u really help me alot..i know that guy doesnt deserve me..n im proud of u and ur babyboy not living with his daddy cause he mess up too.


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Honesty is the best policy. Sit him down and express your desire not to hurt him but you feel the honest and sincere thing to do is be honest. That way he can move on and find someone really in love with him and same with you.
i was in the same problem. you have to be honest with him completly no matter how bad he takes it you have to remember in any situation you come first and if your not happy in a relationship you gotta leave and follow your heart. you never know staying with him you may let real love pass you by. tell him how it is but dont be brutle tell him he will always have a special place in your heat and you would like to keep in contact with him ..thats if you do heehe
Just sit down with him and be honest and forthcoming. Tell him that he is a good man and he has done nothing wrong. You just need some time alone to think and sort out your life.It would not be fair for you to hold on to him and not be on the same page. Your life is going in a different direction right now.
we have the same situation.hmm..i've been through all the stressful night thinking of how to break up with my ex.if you really think you wanna break up.may i suggest that you talk to him in a very nice way..make him understand that you cannot keep the relationship anymore and that you have to part ways.im sure he'll understand.there's no harm on talking to a guy you've dated.goodluck.
just tell him how u feel and maybe u can b friends wit him if u guys want and if he rlly likes u he will understand and only want u to b happy :)
YES do it quick and fast! Don't drag it out that will be more painful!








Kind of like taking off a bandage - pull it quick!
tell him you enjoy your independence, and that you're not giving it up for anyone.
tell him you just want to be friends.