Im going out with a guy that goes to a diff skool. I like other guys and honnestly im kind of over him. He still really likes me and im like his 2nd gf ever, how do i break up with him without crushing him?
Should i wait and thn do it?
How do i say it?
Should i tell him its because i like other guys and i dont like him anymore?How do i break up with him without hurting him?
well I'm one of the guys who experienced a bit of insensitivity when my last relationship ended.
First of all, don' tell him about the other guy! Please for goodness sake don't tell him that.
Breaking up is always painful, but lies are much appreciated.
Say that you simply don't feel the same about him anymore. There might have been a time that you enjoyed him so much, that it was a pleasure just to be within his presence.
But these days, you feel that he's more of a friend than a boy-friend. Say you simply feel differently, if he asks why, just say thats how you feel and it's what's in your heart, also say you are only being honest with yourself and with him.
Add that you need time to think, and that you would honestly prefer to be friends.
He'll feel appreciated as a boy-friend, and the relationship will end in grace that way. There is still of course the chance that he will crush himself (don't know how sensative the guy is-), but that is the most sensative way to put it.
Do not say you like other guys, keep that to yourself. He is not your boyfriend anymore, your business is not his business.How do i break up with him without hurting him?
Just do it. Getting dumped is going to hurt, but it will hurt him more if you drag it on longer. At least this way, it gives him more chance to find someone new.
But no, don't tell him you like other guys. Just say that your relationship is not what you want, and it is time to move on. You could mention that you hope to find a guy at your own school, but don't tell him that you already have some picked out. That sounds like cheating.
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