How do I break up with him, without hurting him?

We've been dating a while now but have already broken up twice. But being a stupid girl, I got back together with him (mainly because I felt bad for him). Now I find myself being repulsed by him. I just want to break up for good. I just don't know how to do it without hurting him. He is REALLY emotional, which totally turns me off.. so I wanna do this as painlessly as possible.





Any suggestions?How do I break up with him, without hurting him?
with people like this unfortunately you have o get mean or they don't get the idea!





I've been in your situation before, and all I did was called him up one night, when I had a friend with me, and said ';look, we aren't working out, I can't stand the way you ( blah blah something) and you know we haven't really been getting on that well, so I think we should just break up'; he'll make a scene and cry and threaten to kill himself or something and then you just say ';No, I've made my decision, good-bye'; and hang up. If he rings back, don't answer. If he comes to your house, tellhim to leave or youll get the cops.


Easy.How do I break up with him, without hurting him?
Say you have Aids , and guys on the side.





Ps: you have gonorrhea
Im afraid that there is no way of doing it without hurting him. You have now sent him mixed messages and he now knows that he can get you by being emotional. Im afraid the only way this time is by being blunt. There is a old saying ';Be crewl to be kind'; this is a saying for you





GOOD LUCK
by what you say, it's going to hurt him no matter how you go about it.


If your happen to know a girl that likes him though, your could tell him this just is'nt working out, and I'm breaking up with you, but here's a phone number of a girl that has been waiting for us to break up, she thinks your really hot, so just go for it and be happy.
You won't be able to do it painless.


Break-ups are hardly ever like, ';Okay hey, by the way, we're over. Cool?'; ';Yeah cool.'; And the world is good.


When one is in the relationship and the other wants out, it isn't going to go smoothly.